What to do with feelings..?
We often use this word in our daily conversation but most of the people are not aware about the exact meaning of feelings and even don’t know what to do with their feelings.Feelings are the emotions and sentiments of every person which he feels at some special occasions or at the time of pain or trial. There are many kinds of feelings like
happiness, sadness, sorrow, pain,worry, excitement
and many more heart touching feelings.In our life there come different occasions and events when it becomes difficult to understand that whether we are happy or sad. Then it becomes very irritating and confusing to express the feelings. But it is admitted fact that feelings are much important in our life. It is the thing which makes you feel that you are alive. It is said that there are no feelings and emotions in dead bodies. Live people are energetic, fresh and full of emotions and feelings.
Most of the time we feel many things about someone special or for your loved ones but you do not express it to them. This thing makes your feelings meaningless. At this a question arises that
“Is that necessary to express your feelings?”
If anybody asks this question to me then I’ll say yes it is the most necessary thing to express your feelings. If you do not express your feelings to others then how would they realize that what you like or not? Suppose you are in love with some one you care that person a lot but you never tell that person that you are in love with that person then how would you expect that he or she will respond you. It is true that feeling can be read from eyes but sometimes it becomes very necessary to tell that what you feel.This thing is not confined to lover’s relation only. It is required in every relation like parents want that their children come near them and say how much their children love them. Friends want to know that how much they are important for you.Every person feels happiness when he knows that some one is very caring about me and loves me very much.Now a second important thing is that how we can express our feelings. There are many ways to express your feelings like in words mean you can say your feelings. Secondly you can express your feeling by touching that person. The most powerful way to express your feeling is touching that person. The touch of that person make you feel secure. Touching is very important. It is scientifically proved that when the mother touches her child then her child grows in better way.If you do not believe then make an experiment whenever you feel uneasy or feel some tension then go straight to your mother and lay down in her lap. When she will ask kindly and hug you tightly and kiss you then you will feel that you are in secure place. If unfortunately you have lost your mother then go to your nearest friend and hold his hand tightly. If he would be your true friend then he will feel that you are in tension and he will try to solve your problem.Please try these experiments and fill your life with feelings and emotions. Hope you understand the feelings and what to do with heart touching feelings of yourheart.